Help?!

Tremontichik006 · 02-15-2003, 09:10 PM

Hola everyone... im hoping somebody here can give me some help or advice.... theres this dance comming up at our h.s. where the gurl asks the guy, and theres a guy i've had a crush on for awhile now, and i really wanna ask him. BUT im incredibly shy..

and i dont know how to ask him, or if i should even ask him... and im afraid if i dont ask him a friend of mine will ask him for me which would make me look bad :embarass: im also afraid of rejection... im so confused!

anyone have any suggestions?

DangerousDan85 · 02-15-2003, 09:14 PM

You only live once, go for it. If you don't you may regret it later

Sheila63 · 02-15-2003, 09:27 PM

I know where you're coming from because I was really shy when I was in school too, so I know how you feel. My first thought is that he might like you too and you just don't know it. I know it's scary to put yourself out there with the possibility of the person saying no but I've learned that it's usually worth the risk because you might be pleasantly surprised. I would just be yourself. I'm speaking from my own experience here because I've found that if you let your true spirit show, people usually respond to you in a positive way. If for some reason he says "no", then to me he missed out on going to the dance with a great person and it's his loss. I hope everything works out for you.

Wylde-Tremonti · 02-15-2003, 09:38 PM

I wouldn't kno...hah.....im shy too.... I've never even had a girlfriend cuz i can never find anyone that i wana ask out...and when i do...i cant seem to ask them....

Bridge of Clay · 02-15-2003, 09:44 PM

and when you meet a girl (awesome girl) but you don´t know her... ans she stares at you too...

how to begin a conversation with her? that´s tough! there´s a girl on the gym I go... but I can´t think in anything common between us to begin a conversation...it sucks!

Tremontichik006 · 02-15-2003, 10:02 PM

thanks for all of ur help so far... great advice

Scutley · 02-15-2003, 11:27 PM

I'm A Guy And I Like It Better When A Girl Comes Up To Me Herself And Ask Me Herself

hayley · 02-15-2003, 11:43 PM

you sholdn't be shy.....if you like this guy then GO FOR IT...you only get one chance for the dance and if you don' ask him you will regret it as dan said. GO GIRL.

TeriB19 · 02-16-2003, 01:41 PM

You'll never know if you don't ask. Good luck! Go for it.

Flip · 02-16-2003, 02:04 PM

Hey Iam guy who finds it hard to ask.....But and chances apper and i miss out, so dont be a dumplin like me and miss out....Just go for it

For example

Teri B19 wanna go out? :P

creeder · 02-16-2003, 02:18 PM

GO FOR IT NOW

Tremontichik006 · 02-16-2003, 02:39 PM

i'll see how things go at school tomorrow, ill keep u guys updated

GoodGodGirl23 · 02-16-2003, 03:17 PM

Quote: Originally posted by N30°14'?.7 W84°
and when you meet a girl (awesome girl) but you don´t know her... ans she stares at you too...

how to begin a conversation with her? that´s tough! there´s a girl on the gym I go... but I can´t think in anything common between us to begin a conversation...it sucks!

Marcos, you are such an incredible person, with such a gentle soul, I can't imagine any girl turning you down, if you should happen to approach her...

I wouldn't.....

HigherGirl · 02-16-2003, 05:29 PM

I say GO FOR IT!!! You only live once!!!!

Bridge of Clay · 02-16-2003, 09:35 PM

Quote: Originally posted by GoodGodGirl23
Marcos, you are such an incredible person, with such a gentle soul, I can't imagine any girl turning you down, if you should happen to approach her...  I wouldn't.....

coz girls rather be just good friends???

bah... I GOT U, BABY! that´s all that matters!

02-15-2003, 09:10 PM	#1
Tremontichik006 USER INFO » Status: INK'ed Posts: 817 Joined: Jan 2003 Currently: Offline	Help?! Hola everyone... im hoping somebody here can give me some help or advice.... theres this dance comming up at our h.s. where the gurl asks the guy, and theres a guy i've had a crush on for awhile now, and i really wanna ask him. BUT im incredibly shy.. and i dont know how to ask him, or if i should even ask him... and im afraid if i dont ask him a friend of mine will ask him for me which would make me look bad :embarass: im also afraid of rejection... im so confused! anyone have any suggestions? __________________ The sun shines and I cant avoid the light I think Im holding on to life too tight Ashes to ashes and dust to dust Sometimes I feel like giving up yeah I said sometimes I feel like giving up

02-15-2003, 09:27 PM	#3
Sheila63 USER INFO » Status: Opened My Eyes Posts: 5,748 Joined: Dec 2002 Currently: Offline	I know where you're coming from because I was really shy when I was in school too, so I know how you feel. My first thought is that he might like you too and you just don't know it. I know it's scary to put yourself out there with the possibility of the person saying no but I've learned that it's usually worth the risk because you might be pleasantly surprised. I would just be yourself. I'm speaking from my own experience here because I've found that if you let your true spirit show, people usually respond to you in a positive way. If for some reason he says "no", then to me he missed out on going to the dance with a great person and it's his loss. I hope everything works out for you. __________________ I was selfish, but you still loved me You gave the greatest gift of all And you set me free Relearn Love

02-15-2003, 09:38 PM	#4
Wylde-Tremonti USER INFO » Status: Said Eyes Posts: 4,357 Joined: Oct 2002 Currently: Offline	I wouldn't kno...hah.....im shy too.... I've never even had a girlfriend cuz i can never find anyone that i wana ask out...and when i do...i cant seem to ask them.... __________________ NOT OF THIS WORLD "See to it that no-one takes you captive through hollow and deceptive philosophy, which depends on human tradition and the basic principles of this world rather than on Christ." Colossians 2:8 My Solo Project's Myspace: Tongues Of Fire Jesus + Guitars = Life

02-15-2003, 09:44 PM	#5
Bridge of Clay USER INFO » Status: Tree of Wisdom Posts: 8,025 Joined: Sep 2002 Currently: Offline	and when you meet a girl (awesome girl) but you don´t know her... ans she stares at you too... how to begin a conversation with her? that´s tough! there´s a girl on the gym I go... but I can´t think in anything common between us to begin a conversation...it sucks! __________________ .:: "If people don't like guitar solos... then they're frikkin' stupid!" - Mark Tremonti ::.

02-15-2003, 10:02 PM	#6
Tremontichik006 USER INFO » Status: INK'ed Posts: 817 Joined: Jan 2003 Currently: Offline	thanks for all of ur help so far... great advice __________________ The sun shines and I cant avoid the light I think Im holding on to life too tight Ashes to ashes and dust to dust Sometimes I feel like giving up yeah I said sometimes I feel like giving up

02-16-2003, 01:41 PM	#9
TeriB19 Forum Diplomat USER INFO » Status: Saving Grace Posts: 12,439 Joined: Sep 2002 Currently: Offline	You'll never know if you don't ask. Good luck! Go for it. __________________ MK: We're never gonna have the Super Bowl of Scott Stapp vs. Myles Kennedy in a sing-off - it's ridiculous. SP: Actually, we are setting that up. MT: It was in your contract when you signed up with us.

02-16-2003, 02:04 PM	#10
Flip USER INFO » Status: Naked Toddler Posts: 297 Joined: Feb 2003 Currently: Offline	Hey Iam guy who finds it hard to ask.....But and chances apper and i miss out, so dont be a dumplin like me and miss out....Just go for it For example Teri B19 wanna go out? :P __________________ Flip ¦¦Are you ready? ¦¦ ¦¦Creed¦¦pearl¦¦primalscream¦¦zildjian¦¦Premier¦¦Alter Bridge¦¦

02-16-2003, 02:18 PM	#11
creeder USER INFO » Status: Blue Collar Posts: 613 Joined: Dec 2002 Currently: Offline	GO FOR IT NOW __________________ You now what I don`t like you at all You have nothing And i have it all I got nothing to share with you Maybe a piece of paper But what is that? Maybe it defines you? You are no one Just be your self "Complex!"

02-16-2003, 02:39 PM	#12
Tremontichik006 USER INFO » Status: INK'ed Posts: 817 Joined: Jan 2003 Currently: Offline	i'll see how things go at school tomorrow, ill keep u guys updated __________________ The sun shines and I cant avoid the light I think Im holding on to life too tight Ashes to ashes and dust to dust Sometimes I feel like giving up yeah I said sometimes I feel like giving up

02-16-2003, 05:29 PM	#14
HigherGirl USER INFO » Status: INK'ed Posts: 914 Joined: Jan 2003 Currently: Offline	I say GO FOR IT!!! You only live once!!!!

02-16-2003, 09:35 PM	#15
Bridge of Clay USER INFO » Status: Tree of Wisdom Posts: 8,025 Joined: Sep 2002 Currently: Offline	Quote: Originally posted by GoodGodGirl23 Marcos, you are such an incredible person, with such a gentle soul, I can't imagine any girl turning you down, if you should happen to approach her...  I wouldn't..... coz girls rather be just good friends??? bah... I GOT U, BABY! that´s all that matters! __________________ .:: "If people don't like guitar solos... then they're frikkin' stupid!" - Mark Tremonti ::.

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