Sorry! Just ignore me,I need to vent

JulieCitySlicker · 03-13-2005, 09:10 PM

Urgh! I'm just so sick of everything! Can't please anybody! Everyone expects me to do everything and no one bothers to help. I'm all alone here and no one cares! Sometimes I just want to go walk off a cliff! Very few people would miss me anyways.
God! I need You!!!

HigherGirl · 03-13-2005, 09:18 PM

S'Ok, Julie,
I feel the same way... My bosses take massive advantage of me at work, they won't even hire someone to help me, they just think I can handle it all, then to come home to a bunch of crap!!! I know how your feeling... we can vent together!! atleast people here listen/read what your saying!!!

TeriB19 · 03-13-2005, 09:21 PM

Julie!!!! We love you girl, and don't you DARE think that no one would miss you, because your presence here would DEFINITELY be missed. We so think of you as family, and I'm fairly certain that I speak for all of us when I say it would NOT be the same without you here. YOU MAKE A DIFFERENCE. Don't you forget that, not for one minute, you hear me?? Don't make me come down there, woman!! Besides, if we do a Creedfeed Fest in St. Louis, and you don't show, we'll find you. We'll hunt you down, we'll find you and we'll FORCE you to come out and play with us!!!!

JulieCitySlicker · 03-13-2005, 09:35 PM

I know that you all care about me and everything and I love you all to,I just wish I felt the same way about my family

I feel like they are expecting me to do everything with the house to try to get it sold when its not even my house in the first place! My mom and I got into a fight on the IM about it and then she just got offline real fast,like its all my fault and that its all my responsibility to do it all when I can't fucking do it! I'm just so tired of it all! The nearest cave sounds better to live in then this place!

creedsister · 03-13-2005, 09:40 PM

You Know You Can Choose Your Friends But You Cant Choose Your Famliy

Girl Dont Yo ASS Be Walking Off No Dam Clift

JulieCitySlicker · 03-13-2005, 09:44 PM

Thank you Sis,for just always being there

creedsister · 03-13-2005, 09:51 PM

Loves Dat Julie

You welcome

HigherGirl · 03-13-2005, 11:53 PM

Julie... Just do this...

Shut your phone off and disappear for even a couple hours to your room and read a good book/magazine..watch a good movie, anything to take your mind off things, your stress level will go down, even if only for a little while. Trust me it works, it's what I do. I hate to hear you so down.. Please take care of yourself, OK??

Trimontana · 03-14-2005, 03:39 AM

JUlie darling. I understand how you feel. I am almost in the same situation than you. Its hard to give and advice when you are down as well but babes, we are here and even in the distance and even we dont know each other in person i can say that you are a great girl and we all go through thougs moments in life.
I know about "The Family Stuff" and how you feel about it. I dont have mom any more, she died 6 years ago. Our relationship was hard sometimes. You need to tell her that you are an independent person with a own life. Dont leave another people live your live for you. You need to be happu cos you are gonna move home and its so great!!!.
About the job darling, why you dont write down a letter to your main manager or your head office. If they dont do anything go to what we call here a citizen bureau of advice. There will help you for sure. I now it sucks the whole situation but from here J-U-L-I-E

W-E L-O-V-E Y-A!!!
i know Mondays sucks sweety. I hate Mondays, but tomorrow will be another day.
You see,my dream is go to live to the States and everything depends in if i won the loterry...what a contradiction

Trimontana · 03-14-2005, 04:00 AM

Quote: (Originally Posted by TeriB19) Julie!!!! We love you girl, and don't you DARE think that no one would miss you, because your presence here would DEFINITELY be missed. We so think of you as family, and I'm fairly certain that I speak for all of us when I say it would NOT be the same without you here. YOU MAKE A DIFFERENCE. Don't you forget that, not for one minute, you hear me?? Don't make me come down there, woman!! Besides, if we do a Creedfeed Fest in St. Louis, and you don't show, we'll find you. We'll hunt you down, we'll find you and we'll FORCE you to come out and play with us!!!!

Teri, did i read a CreedFeed Fest in St. Louis????
If you do a party for the board members i will be there for sure. I am talking seriously

Dogstar · 03-14-2005, 04:13 AM

Julie, hang in there. I know it's not much in the way of advice, but sometimes, families make you nuts. Teri's right, you would be soooo missed, it's not even funny. What HigherGirl said works, too. Take some time for YOU! Trust me, you'll feel better and able to deal with things more if you just take a break and do something for you, even if it's only for an hour or so. Don't give UP!

Anna1011 · 03-14-2005, 05:16 AM

i havent been postin on here as long as some people, but youve always bin there for me, i love you as much as everyone else on here, you're all like my family i can talk to you all about anything and you'll all try to help. i would really miss you if you where gone so dont even think about going anywhere. i hope you get everything sorted out cause i hate to see you like this.

03-13-2005, 09:10 PM	#1
JulieCitySlicker USER INFO » Status: Taken Higher Posts: 15,310 Joined: Oct 2002 Currently: Offline	Sorry! Just ignore me,I need to vent Urgh! I'm just so sick of everything! Can't please anybody! Everyone expects me to do everything and no one bothers to help. I'm all alone here and no one cares! Sometimes I just want to go walk off a cliff! Very few people would miss me anyways. God! I need You!!! __________________ Oh I'm a wandering soul I'm still walking the line that leads me home alone All I know I still got mountains to climb on my own Enough To Let Me Go-Switchfoot

03-13-2005, 09:21 PM	#3
TeriB19 Forum Diplomat USER INFO » Status: Saving Grace Posts: 12,439 Joined: Sep 2002 Currently: Offline	Julie!!!! We love you girl, and don't you DARE think that no one would miss you, because your presence here would DEFINITELY be missed. We so think of you as family, and I'm fairly certain that I speak for all of us when I say it would NOT be the same without you here. YOU MAKE A DIFFERENCE. Don't you forget that, not for one minute, you hear me?? Don't make me come down there, woman!! Besides, if we do a Creedfeed Fest in St. Louis, and you don't show, we'll find you. We'll hunt you down, we'll find you and we'll FORCE you to come out and play with us!!!! __________________ MK: We're never gonna have the Super Bowl of Scott Stapp vs. Myles Kennedy in a sing-off - it's ridiculous. SP: Actually, we are setting that up. MT: It was in your contract when you signed up with us.

03-13-2005, 09:35 PM	#4
JulieCitySlicker USER INFO » Status: Taken Higher Posts: 15,310 Joined: Oct 2002 Currently: Offline	I know that you all care about me and everything and I love you all to,I just wish I felt the same way about my family I feel like they are expecting me to do everything with the house to try to get it sold when its not even my house in the first place! My mom and I got into a fight on the IM about it and then she just got offline real fast,like its all my fault and that its all my responsibility to do it all when I can't fucking do it! I'm just so tired of it all! The nearest cave sounds better to live in then this place! __________________ Oh I'm a wandering soul I'm still walking the line that leads me home alone All I know I still got mountains to climb on my own Enough To Let Me Go-Switchfoot

03-13-2005, 09:40 PM	#5
creedsister USER INFO » Status: Tree of Wisdom Posts: 8,290 Joined: Oct 2003 Currently: Offline	You Know You Can Choose Your Friends But You Cant Choose Your Famliy Girl Dont Yo ASS Be Walking Off No Dam Clift __________________ Hush child I,ll tell you why you have Loved Me when you were weak you have given me unselfishly Kept you From Falling Falling everywhere But Your Kness you set me free to live my life you become my Reason To Survive The Great Divide you Set Me Free Ooh Our Love Is Beautiful Ooh isn,t This Beautiful Child It Seems You Have Been My Everything

03-13-2005, 09:44 PM	#6
JulieCitySlicker USER INFO » Status: Taken Higher Posts: 15,310 Joined: Oct 2002 Currently: Offline	Thank you Sis,for just always being there __________________ Oh I'm a wandering soul I'm still walking the line that leads me home alone All I know I still got mountains to climb on my own Enough To Let Me Go-Switchfoot

03-13-2005, 09:18 PM	#2
HigherGirl USER INFO » Status: INK'ed Posts: 914 Joined: Jan 2003 Currently: Offline	S'Ok, Julie, I feel the same way... My bosses take massive advantage of me at work, they won't even hire someone to help me, they just think I can handle it all, then to come home to a bunch of crap!!! I know how your feeling... we can vent together!! atleast people here listen/read what your saying!!!

03-13-2005, 09:51 PM	#7
creedsister USER INFO » Status: Tree of Wisdom Posts: 8,290 Joined: Oct 2003 Currently: Offline	Loves Dat Julie You welcome __________________ Hush child I,ll tell you why you have Loved Me when you were weak you have given me unselfishly Kept you From Falling Falling everywhere But Your Kness you set me free to live my life you become my Reason To Survive The Great Divide you Set Me Free Ooh Our Love Is Beautiful Ooh isn,t This Beautiful Child It Seems You Have Been My Everything

03-13-2005, 11:53 PM	#8
HigherGirl USER INFO » Status: INK'ed Posts: 914 Joined: Jan 2003 Currently: Offline	Julie... Just do this... Shut your phone off and disappear for even a couple hours to your room and read a good book/magazine..watch a good movie, anything to take your mind off things, your stress level will go down, even if only for a little while. Trust me it works, it's what I do. I hate to hear you so down.. Please take care of yourself, OK??

03-14-2005, 03:39 AM	#9
Trimontana USER INFO » Status: Bound and Tied Posts: 2,145 Joined: Oct 2004 Currently: Offline	JUlie darling. I understand how you feel. I am almost in the same situation than you. Its hard to give and advice when you are down as well but babes, we are here and even in the distance and even we dont know each other in person i can say that you are a great girl and we all go through thougs moments in life. I know about "The Family Stuff" and how you feel about it. I dont have mom any more, she died 6 years ago. Our relationship was hard sometimes. You need to tell her that you are an independent person with a own life. Dont leave another people live your live for you. You need to be happu cos you are gonna move home and its so great!!!. About the job darling, why you dont write down a letter to your main manager or your head office. If they dont do anything go to what we call here a citizen bureau of advice. There will help you for sure. I now it sucks the whole situation but from here J-U-L-I-E W-E L-O-V-E Y-A!!! i know Mondays sucks sweety. I hate Mondays, but tomorrow will be another day. You see,my dream is go to live to the States and everything depends in if i won the loterry...what a contradiction __________________ Papa Roach's Tobin Esperance: "If you're gonna wear makeup, it's not about looking pretty. It's gotta look like you've been up all night doing drugs."

03-14-2005, 04:00 AM	#10
Trimontana USER INFO » Status: Bound and Tied Posts: 2,145 Joined: Oct 2004 Currently: Offline	Quote: (Originally Posted by TeriB19) Julie!!!! We love you girl, and don't you DARE think that no one would miss you, because your presence here would DEFINITELY be missed. We so think of you as family, and I'm fairly certain that I speak for all of us when I say it would NOT be the same without you here. YOU MAKE A DIFFERENCE. Don't you forget that, not for one minute, you hear me?? Don't make me come down there, woman!! Besides, if we do a Creedfeed Fest in St. Louis, and you don't show, we'll find you. We'll hunt you down, we'll find you and we'll FORCE you to come out and play with us!!!! Teri, did i read a CreedFeed Fest in St. Louis???? If you do a party for the board members i will be there for sure. I am talking seriously __________________ Papa Roach's Tobin Esperance: "If you're gonna wear makeup, it's not about looking pretty. It's gotta look like you've been up all night doing drugs."

03-14-2005, 04:13 AM	#11
Dogstar Forum Diplomat USER INFO » Status: Young Grown Old Posts: 21,345 Joined: Sep 2002 Currently: Offline	Julie, hang in there. I know it's not much in the way of advice, but sometimes, families make you nuts. Teri's right, you would be soooo missed, it's not even funny. What HigherGirl said works, too. Take some time for YOU! Trust me, you'll feel better and able to deal with things more if you just take a break and do something for you, even if it's only for an hour or so. Don't give UP! __________________ Silly monkeys give them thumbs they make a club and beat their brother down. How they survive so misguided is a mystery.

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