Grrr! Life Friggen Sucks!

JulieCitySlicker · 07-20-2004, 11:02 PM

Hi Everyone!

I'm really friggen stressed out, my brother just got an email for my gas bill and its due before I get paid and I had to use my brother's Sam's credit card to get groceries, and I'm in a financial bind cuz my money didn't even last 2 weeks, cuz I had all of my bills to pay I don't know what to do anymore, I'm fed up and I'm trying to get a roommate now to, and I have all of this uncertainty! Grrr!

Dogstar · 07-20-2004, 11:10 PM

Seems lots of people are having a crappy day today.

I'm sorry you're in such a bind, Julie. That really bites. Uncertainty is difficult to handle. There's nothing worse than limbo. I hope you're out of that situation soon and can make your ends meet. It's not easy these days.

Weathered · 07-20-2004, 11:47 PM

I couldn't agree with you more

JulieCitySlicker · 07-21-2004, 12:08 AM

Thanks Dogstar and Seth! I feel a little bit better about it now, my friend Melody is over here staying the night and has been really encouraging to me and its hard to be down and stressed out when she is around

Dogstar · 07-21-2004, 01:28 AM

Well, that's good to hear, Julie! I'm glad your friend is helping you out.

Hang in there!

hayley · 07-21-2004, 04:40 AM

Argh, I'm sorry Julie, maybe you should move back with your parents for awhile, until you are stable enough to pay the bills, etc. Without any complications? How far do your parents live from you?

TeriB19 · 07-21-2004, 09:29 AM

Keep the faith and lean on your friends, Julie. It's a tremendous help! Hayley does have a point, someone from your family needs to pitch in and help you out.

to you.

whitebird · 07-21-2004, 09:38 AM

Hi Julie, I'm sorry that you are going thru such a rough time financially. Look at the good side though, at least those two guys are gone, and you can get someone else to rent, that will be much better.

JulieCitySlicker · 07-21-2004, 12:44 PM

Thank you all so much for your encouraging words, that means a lot to me

My parents live 8 hours away from from me Hayley, so it would be a long move if I went that direction and I have a ton of furniture and stuff down here. Plus I really feel in my heart that I'm to stay here! I'm going to be 26 years old in November and I really feel as though moving back in with Mom and Dad isn't for me cuz I've been pretty much self dependant since I was 19. I have a girl from my church that is moving in with me and she told her landlady last night about her decision. She sounded like she was ok with it to and understanding. Wich was good cuz we were both worried about how she was going to take it. Melody and I have also discussed getting an apartment as well, if it comes down to it and we have to sell the house.

creedsister · 07-21-2004, 02:14 PM

hey julie i can relate to all of these miserys sweetie Just hang in there i know it hard just do it any ways i was once told from someone that if life is a bowl of cherries with not a care in the world YOUR DAMEND so in my own way i guess im saying it will be all right ROCK ON!!!! Gal

JulieCitySlicker · 07-21-2004, 11:20 PM

Thank you Sis

Well, the bomb was kinda dropped today in a way. Last night my friend told her landlady that she was moving in with me and I guess she went and took the liberty of telling our Pastor at church instead of giving Melody the courtesy of telling our Pastors herself, so they are all giving Melody the cold shoulder at church now, and tonight the leadership at the church were all giving her attitude and everything. So its going to be a rough few months but I'm prepared for whatever the future holds for us.

whitebird · 07-21-2004, 11:26 PM

Julie, please you and your friend should follow the spirituality and kindness you feel in your hearts. If you feel that sharing your home with a friend is what is right for you, go for it.

Others who consider themselves judges in your church, should let you find your own path.

Peace, love, compassion, and personal spirituality.

Love, whitebird

JulieCitySlicker · 07-21-2004, 11:31 PM

You are so right Whitebird!
Thank you much for the encouragement, we have both been praying about this for the past month, and we both felt that this was a good thing to do

I guess everyone else is gonna have to except it sooner or later.

GoodGodGirl23 · 07-22-2004, 02:44 PM

(((((hugs))))) Julie!

JulieCitySlicker · 07-24-2004, 03:42 PM

Thank you Suzie

07-20-2004, 11:02 PM	#1
JulieCitySlicker USER INFO » Status: Taken Higher Posts: 15,310 Joined: Oct 2002 Currently: Offline	Grrr! Life Friggen Sucks! Hi Everyone! I'm really friggen stressed out, my brother just got an email for my gas bill and its due before I get paid and I had to use my brother's Sam's credit card to get groceries, and I'm in a financial bind cuz my money didn't even last 2 weeks, cuz I had all of my bills to pay I don't know what to do anymore, I'm fed up and I'm trying to get a roommate now to, and I have all of this uncertainty! Grrr! __________________ Oh I'm a wandering soul I'm still walking the line that leads me home alone All I know I still got mountains to climb on my own Enough To Let Me Go-Switchfoot

07-20-2004, 11:10 PM	#2
Dogstar Forum Diplomat USER INFO » Status: Young Grown Old Posts: 21,345 Joined: Sep 2002 Currently: Offline	Seems lots of people are having a crappy day today. I'm sorry you're in such a bind, Julie. That really bites. Uncertainty is difficult to handle. There's nothing worse than limbo. I hope you're out of that situation soon and can make your ends meet. It's not easy these days. __________________ Silly monkeys give them thumbs they make a club and beat their brother down. How they survive so misguided is a mystery.

07-21-2004, 12:08 AM	#4
JulieCitySlicker USER INFO » Status: Taken Higher Posts: 15,310 Joined: Oct 2002 Currently: Offline	Thanks Dogstar and Seth! I feel a little bit better about it now, my friend Melody is over here staying the night and has been really encouraging to me and its hard to be down and stressed out when she is around __________________ Oh I'm a wandering soul I'm still walking the line that leads me home alone All I know I still got mountains to climb on my own Enough To Let Me Go-Switchfoot

07-21-2004, 01:28 AM	#5
Dogstar Forum Diplomat USER INFO » Status: Young Grown Old Posts: 21,345 Joined: Sep 2002 Currently: Offline	Well, that's good to hear, Julie! I'm glad your friend is helping you out. Hang in there! __________________ Silly monkeys give them thumbs they make a club and beat their brother down. How they survive so misguided is a mystery.

07-21-2004, 09:29 AM	#7
TeriB19 Forum Diplomat USER INFO » Status: Saving Grace Posts: 12,439 Joined: Sep 2002 Currently: Offline	Keep the faith and lean on your friends, Julie. It's a tremendous help! Hayley does have a point, someone from your family needs to pitch in and help you out. to you. __________________ MK: We're never gonna have the Super Bowl of Scott Stapp vs. Myles Kennedy in a sing-off - it's ridiculous. SP: Actually, we are setting that up. MT: It was in your contract when you signed up with us.

07-21-2004, 09:38 AM	#8
whitebird USER INFO » Status: Blue Collar Posts: 630 Joined: Feb 2003 Currently: Offline	Hi Julie, I'm sorry that you are going thru such a rough time financially. Look at the good side though, at least those two guys are gone, and you can get someone else to rent, that will be much better.

07-21-2004, 12:44 PM	#9
JulieCitySlicker USER INFO » Status: Taken Higher Posts: 15,310 Joined: Oct 2002 Currently: Offline	Thank you all so much for your encouraging words, that means a lot to me My parents live 8 hours away from from me Hayley, so it would be a long move if I went that direction and I have a ton of furniture and stuff down here. Plus I really feel in my heart that I'm to stay here! I'm going to be 26 years old in November and I really feel as though moving back in with Mom and Dad isn't for me cuz I've been pretty much self dependant since I was 19. I have a girl from my church that is moving in with me and she told her landlady last night about her decision. She sounded like she was ok with it to and understanding. Wich was good cuz we were both worried about how she was going to take it. Melody and I have also discussed getting an apartment as well, if it comes down to it and we have to sell the house. __________________ Oh I'm a wandering soul I'm still walking the line that leads me home alone All I know I still got mountains to climb on my own Enough To Let Me Go-Switchfoot

07-21-2004, 02:14 PM	#10
creedsister USER INFO » Status: Tree of Wisdom Posts: 8,290 Joined: Oct 2003 Currently: Offline	hey julie i can relate to all of these miserys sweetie Just hang in there i know it hard just do it any ways i was once told from someone that if life is a bowl of cherries with not a care in the world YOUR DAMEND so in my own way i guess im saying it will be all right ROCK ON!!!! Gal __________________ Hush child I,ll tell you why you have Loved Me when you were weak you have given me unselfishly Kept you From Falling Falling everywhere But Your Kness you set me free to live my life you become my Reason To Survive The Great Divide you Set Me Free Ooh Our Love Is Beautiful Ooh isn,t This Beautiful Child It Seems You Have Been My Everything

07-21-2004, 11:20 PM	#11
JulieCitySlicker USER INFO » Status: Taken Higher Posts: 15,310 Joined: Oct 2002 Currently: Offline	Thank you Sis Well, the bomb was kinda dropped today in a way. Last night my friend told her landlady that she was moving in with me and I guess she went and took the liberty of telling our Pastor at church instead of giving Melody the courtesy of telling our Pastors herself, so they are all giving Melody the cold shoulder at church now, and tonight the leadership at the church were all giving her attitude and everything. So its going to be a rough few months but I'm prepared for whatever the future holds for us. __________________ Oh I'm a wandering soul I'm still walking the line that leads me home alone All I know I still got mountains to climb on my own Enough To Let Me Go-Switchfoot

07-21-2004, 11:26 PM	#12
whitebird USER INFO » Status: Blue Collar Posts: 630 Joined: Feb 2003 Currently: Offline	Julie, please you and your friend should follow the spirituality and kindness you feel in your hearts. If you feel that sharing your home with a friend is what is right for you, go for it. Others who consider themselves judges in your church, should let you find your own path. Peace, love, compassion, and personal spirituality. Love, whitebird

07-21-2004, 11:31 PM	#13
JulieCitySlicker USER INFO » Status: Taken Higher Posts: 15,310 Joined: Oct 2002 Currently: Offline	You are so right Whitebird! Thank you much for the encouragement, we have both been praying about this for the past month, and we both felt that this was a good thing to do I guess everyone else is gonna have to except it sooner or later. __________________ Oh I'm a wandering soul I'm still walking the line that leads me home alone All I know I still got mountains to climb on my own Enough To Let Me Go-Switchfoot

07-24-2004, 03:42 PM	#15
JulieCitySlicker USER INFO » Status: Taken Higher Posts: 15,310 Joined: Oct 2002 Currently: Offline	Thank you Suzie __________________ Oh I'm a wandering soul I'm still walking the line that leads me home alone All I know I still got mountains to climb on my own Enough To Let Me Go-Switchfoot

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