son, you need to talk to her, no question about it. and don't pussyfoot about anything. just tell her, straight up, how you feel, what you've heard, etc. if you've got feelings for her, she deserves to know about it. if you feel she's been a crazy bitch, you need to let her know. perhaps your other friend was wrong? just don't shut everything off right away; get all sides of the story before making any decisions.
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