Dang, goddess, I'm a homemaker, and I don't think of myself like that.... don't be so hard on yourself...I raised some wonderful kids by being a stay at home mommie aka *Homemaker* maybe they wouldn't have turned out so well if they have been rasied by babysitters??? you know??? Think of it that way?? Pat your self on the back... be glad you are a stay at home mom... or a homemaker.... I am....
Just my opinion