OMG, i can't believe you guys/girls. That is why the movie is so interesting, HE ISN'T LIKE THE OTHER SUPER HEROS. If you have ever read the comics/cartoon you will see that most of the themes in the movie are like that in the comics.
I personally thought it was one of the best action movies i have ever seen, but i guess that is my opinion, critics tend to back me up as well....
http://www.metacritic.com/video/titles/spiderman2. But i guess to each his own opinion.