Come on Lit. You must to understand Julie here. What she's trying to say is that (example) you have a ex (girl-boy) and someone tells something about her/him. And you want to know about him/her but you don't feel ready to see him/her cos you broke up with him/her short ago. The same with Creed. That's more or less that. I think so?????. Julie, i know what you mean