[hotforscott]

I am so sorry to hear that, Colin. You will find somebody, I am sure of it. She sounds like she was very sweet and polite about it, so don't consider it as being "shot down", you seem like a sweet guy, and what if she had said yes, and then you met the perfect girl a week later, would you have the heart to let her know you want to date this other girl who seems perfect for you? I bet you wouldn't since you are so nice, and then you would always wonder. So, look at it this way, she may have done you a favor, your "perfect girl" may be right around the corner!