[aussiecreeder]

its probably not what you want to hear right now but you will find yourself a good guy and one who will commit. guys at that age particulary are spooked if any sort of commitment is expected of them. but you shouldn't settle for anything less than 100% ever. remaining friends with an ex can be kind of tricky. it works out fine with some and not so great with others. perhaps you shouldn't see him for a while and eventually you won't feel anything at all for him and it will be easier to be friends.