[hotforscott]

I am a too young story all the way. I got pregnant with my 1st at 18, had her at 19, got married at 19, pregnant again at 20, had him at 21, I am now 23 and he is 30. i love him and he is a great guy, but there have been a lot of issues that have come up because we didn't know everything about eachother. we don't have major problems, like drugs or alchohol, but we didn't have the "alone time" that I feel you need before you have children. i would'nt change one thing about my life, but I feel if I were to giv advice, I would say wait. and also make sure you discuss children BEFORE you have them. dicipline, how many, etc. i am not sure how to answer the soul mate thing. i feel i have my soul mate. i couldn't imagine being with anyone else and i don't think there is anything that could come our way that we could not overcome. we couldn't imagine doing it w/o eachother.