Girl Advice . . .
 

Im not really one to ask for advice on public forums such as these, but my friends are fucking useless sometimes! :mad: Sorry if this story sounds all broken up etc, I have huge headache, and typing something this long is hard! Anyway . . .

About 6 months ago a new girl started at work, we didnt talk to each other for while, then one night at the christmas party we started to get to know each other and over course of next few weeks got quite friendly. Fast forward a bit and we were looking at moving out together. At time seemed like good idea, both situations at home were fucked up and we were just friends. About a month ago it all seemed to go downhill quickly.

We had gone out together purely as friends quite a few times, but I never saw relationship going anymore. More and more though we started to flirt with each other. I started to develop feelings for her, but I wasnt sure if she felt same way or if she was just fucking with me. Then one night she phoned to "talk". Was just about random shit for while, then out of blue she told me she loved me. I didnt know if she was serious or not, so I said goodnight and hung up. Dont know why, just freaked out when she said it. We didnt talk for a while, then about week later I ran into her at nightclub. Before I knew it she was all over me, kissing me and telling me how much she loved me, and had feelings for me etc.

Anyway she walked off for bit, and her friend, who I also work with, came up to me and pointed out this guy that apparently the girl was going out with. It was quite a shock considering what she had told me a few minutes earlier. Feeling quite pissed off I decided to leave without sayng goodbye. Since then we have barely spoke, I cancelled all plans to move out. Few times I have run into her outside of work we've said nothing to each other.

What I mean by all this is hard to explain. I still have feelings for her myself even after this, I dont know why. Maybe I should tell her? Its so uncomfortable being around her. What if she actually did have feelings for me? Im worried if I say anything to her it will get out at work and make things much worse. Advice would greatly be appreciated :o

i have no idea what to say, maybe you should tell her how you feel she might feel the same way you never know. i know my advice isnt all that good but i wanted to try help.

Hmm, I don't know for sure, but it sounds like she's playing some sort of game. If she's going out with someone already, maybe she's trying to make him jealous by being flirty with you.

son, you need to talk to her, no question about it. and don't pussyfoot about anything. just tell her, straight up, how you feel, what you've heard, etc. if you've got feelings for her, she deserves to know about it. if you feel she's been a crazy bitch, you need to let her know. perhaps your other friend was wrong? just don't shut everything off right away; get all sides of the story before making any decisions.

I agree with Dogstar! It seems like she is playing some sort of game and is trying to use you and get to your feelings only to get your hopes up and then go back to her boyfriend. I don't mean this to be mean or rude towards you,but she sounds like a slut to me!

do you think its possible she really did love you and when you seemed to ignore that she decided to punish you? hmmm not really sure all of these games are stupid. life is too short for all this crap.......

I Agree With Ya :D Sluts Rule :D

Dude, no man takes shit from a woman.

Bring back the good ol days, none of this rights crap, your lady has a problem? Give her a good smack in the face to set her straight.


Thats what I do and it works 100% of the time...

No wait that was my dog..


Uh your screwed

Well man, you are in quite a situation. What you need to do is tell her flat out how you feel, then question her about the dude she is goin out with. Personally tho, i wouldnt mess with her, because what if you get to be in the same situation the other guy is in? Once a cheater, always a cheater. Once a player, always a player. It doesnt matter, if people think they can get away with it, they will try to. I wouldnt put too much faith in her, i would send her packin if she is actually seeing that guy. If shes playin this guy, chances are shes going to play you too.

I know what its like to be played like that, my ex cheated on me when she was 5 months pregnant with my son. Sometimes, even tho you really love or like the person, you have to think about yourself and what this person is going to do to you.

Yeah I think I should just ask her straight out and not fuck around with it. Daunting prospect :o but must be done. Thanks for all your help! :)

:) 100 pecent of the time it does work but there is a lot of ways :) Of Getting Slapped Across The Face , Other Than Vilonce :) ;)

Ya, your really gonna keep a chick around for more than a week :rolleyes: Ass!

Im so sexy, sometimes when i drive around in the downtown neigborhood late at night, really hot girls come up to my car and offer me sweet love for money. Man im a stud.

You said it, we didn't. :D

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