Ya that is a very hard thing to do, to forgive and forget. Especially in a situation like that! Do you know the person he cheated with :confused: That must be a horrible thing to deal with :( I think I would have been out the door!

Yes, I do know her. She is a friend. Or was supposed to be a friend. She has met my parents, went out to eat with me, we went shopping together, and rented movies, she even helped me do my nursery when I was pregnant with Lauren. A REAL slap in the face in my opinion. She is married with 2 children as well. A real bitch and it's so hard for me not to say that they deserve eachother. If it was an innocent person who didn't know he was married, I would have no problem with her, but she did it in MY HOUSE, while I was out of town, I am starting to get mad when I sort out the bad details, so I am going to take a bubble bath and try to focus on other things, but that should give you an idea of how hard this is really going to be. It may never work with him, but I know I am setting goals for myself with this, and I refuse to have anything affect my life or my childrens life badly in any way from here on out.

Gosh Carrie! That would make it even harder, since you knew this person and she knew you were married and everything :mad: Thats aweful! I hope you can sort things out and that whats best for everyone will happen hereI hope for the best for you hun :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: I'll be praying for you as well!

Me, too. Thank you for your kind words. You are the best. I am sure one way or another I will get through it.

I'm sure you will get through this Carrie ;) You are a very strong person :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

I know I've said it before, Carrie, but I'm at a loss for words except to say that I'm so sorry you're going through all of this. :( I can't even imagine all that you're feeling. Keep the faith. I wish you all of the best.:hugs: :hugs:

Thanks you guys!

happy and tirrrrrrred .....

hungry.....for lunch

calm

pissy :mad: :D

Me to Kerri :mad: Been that way all day to!

LOL, same here, Julie. Don't even know why...I even went to the gym and that didn't even help :mad:

I know Kerri! I think I woke up pissed this morning and it never went away :D I went to the gym today to and then went for a long walk and I'm still pissed off :eek:

I hear ya, Julie! I hope tomorrow is better :D