Ever been in love?
 

i just recenty found the best girl...i really love her. i think i will marry her when we get older.

ever been in love, or had a girlfriend?

I thought I was in love, once. It was several years ago :) That didn't last very long though :eek:

I used to have a girlfriend. Thought I loved her at the time, but it wasn't. Now I gots me another lady-friend (not a girlfriend... won't ask her to be such until I see her next, at the earliest), but I don't want to commit to "love" too early. Usually, it's a matter or infatuation. American bad a$, check back w/ us in a few months, let us know how your relationship's doing then. How old are you anyway, if you don't mind my asking.

i m 16. yes it sounds werid, that's what everyone i talk to says. that's why i said, "when we are older." she knows what i am thinking, and she is thinking the same thing.

Thats great that for you being so young you already know that you found the right one :) I really hope that everything works out for the 2 of you, best wishes :D I'm 25 and I don't think Mr. Right even exhists :(

Nope Neither... yeah i'm a loser... lol... workin on my guitar playing right now... so i dunno how good a BF i would be... it seems like having a GF requires a lot of work and commitment... if you want it down right... i guess i just need to find that special girl...
plus i'm a shy guy... so i guess that doesn't help... :)

thanks. she is great, and i could be very happy with her.

hey, if you thik negetively like that, he deffinately will not exist. think positively. he is out there...just keep on looking.

Well I'm kind of shy too, but slowly breaking out of it. It's really hard for me to just go up and talk to a really hot guy. If my friends ever told me to do it, they would literally have to drag me over their in order for me to talk to him. I've never had a BF, came close, but didn't quite make it. I don't think that I've ever really been in love either, just infatuated.

Ya me to Alisha :) I've only had one b/f and it really was hardly even that :rolleyes: Just someone I gave my address to when I was at work one day cleaning at a hotel. I never thought he would even write to me but he did. I was 18 and stupid and he was the first guy that ever said I was pretty, every other guy like guys at school were pricks to me, even the guys at my church at the time were jerks! :mad1: :mad:

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Wow, that sounds kind of like me. Except I gave my phone number to him. It didn't do any good because he only called me once to wish me a happy birthday. I thought it was thoughful of him, but I would have liked him to call me more. I called him a few times, but then after I noticed I was basically doing all the talking, I gave up. He also said that I was pretty, just not to my face. He told my friends instead. :confused: All the guys at my school are pricks too. They date the freshman and sophomore girls because they know they will give them what they want. :rolleyes: I'm still praying that one of these days someone will come along for me.

Ya! I'm so glad I have my head on straight and never did anything that I would regret now! That guy basically wanted me for one reason :mad1: To bad for his luck cuz he never got it :D

yeah, y'all are right. there are too many guys in it only for the :sex:
that is not why i am in my relationship. but guys are stupid, and all they care about is there own gain. but that is not me :lol:

:wow: You know, you're are the first guy that I have ever heard say that about other guys just wanting :sex: . I'm glad to hear that you are in it because you really do love her. :clap:

Right on man :D Your g/f is very lucky to have you :thumbsup:

You and i need to talk more...lol...

Hey, American Bad A$, not to be a skeptical asshole or rain on your parade or anything... what you've got going sounds great. But just let us know in a few months where y'all stand. I was where you were, same age and all. Obviously, that didn't work out. We're still friends, and she's going out w/ one of my best friends from high school (if high school marching band is a family, then i guess incest was very common) and it's good stuff.

Never had a relationship...probably won't for a while...don't want one at the moment...

lol! :D

wait wait hold on the phone at 16 when you think you know it all your really just a dumb ass ok~`Amricanbadass Dont be a dumb ass !!!! Dont take my good advice to shame~~Your Young Lifes A party Rock on~~As motley would say ~~Much To Young To Fall In Love :jam: :jam: :jam:

That could've been put a tad more delicately.

im Sorry

Haha, don't apologize to me. and it's still wise advice...he's just not a dumbass :P

I'll second that. Way to go!! :)

And to answer your question, yes, I've been in love. Alisha and Julie, I was really shy when I was younger too so I can relate to what you're saying but I did manage to find my first love when I was 17.

well i was being sarcastic and its just my ways when i try to get a point acrossed it just dont come acrossed good on the internet i dunno :D

Haha nope, in my experience sarcasm doesn't work on the Internet.

nope it sure dosent peace be whicha now

I hope that everything will work out for the two of you.

As for me, I like this one girl. She knows it, i felt it would be easier to be honest up front. We are friends but I get the feeling she doesnt want to be more. I am just waiting and seeing what will happen.

good luck to ya bro

good luck iced! If she can't see that you're a good guy, then she is blind! lol!

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...and she just broke up with me on hour ago.

i seriously am about to die. Tuesday, we were talking about how long this relationship was gonna last, and tonight, she said, "I don't think we should be together." She said she prayed about it, and didn't think it was the best thing. She was big about it, and said it wasn't anything i did, and i guess i believe her. i told her i love her, and that i would always be there for her, and that i hoped she change her mind.

oh well.

Sorry to hear that, man. Just don't chase after her too much, you know, don't keep trying to get back together everytime you'd break up. I made that mistake. Quite painful, indeed. It might seem like the end of the world, but if there's one cliche that's true, it's this: There are always more fish in the sea. And don't get exasperated by not finding the right one right away. You're only 16. Time-a-plenty to find someone. On a side note, I don't by her "it's nothing you did" line. It's something girls say, whether they admit to it or not. If you're interested in finding out the true reason (I'm not giving you advice to go either way), it's possible there's something a little more. Once again, speaking from personal experience, she may've been overwhelmed by it all. Was this her first serious relationship? How about yours? Hey man, good luck and God bless. And, in the words of Benji Madden, "Hold on, if you feel like letting go. Hold on, it gets better than you know."

yea i have... and ill admit it, it was the greatest time ever. Just like the Sugar Ray songs says "When its over, thats when you fall in love again"

hahaha! What are you talking about? But now that you know I guess Ihave to tell you :o ....I have been stalking you....j/k!! ;) It's like a dating service here or something! :D

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Yes, I have been in love before.

I was talking to someone yesterday and she couldnt believe that I was happy being single and not in a hurry to find someone! It's strange that people think that everyones life should revolve around being with someone or they just aint happy. I wanna be content within myself first. Is that strange?

american bada$, that comment was not aimed at U in any way ok. :( That sux that that happened to you. No-one likes that sort of news, especially when they are sure it was gonna last. Hope U heal soon enough.

I really thought that I was in love...once....

I've been doin' good. :D Sure I'll chat with you, but I have MSN. :homer: