when people need help, I think is best to offer good avice, rather than hugs and pity that doesnt do anything really.

I think you quoted the wrong person.

That's true. Either help them or not help them at all.

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Then offer good advice. But 'suck it up' or 'go find friends' isn't the best advice.

actually it is.
if you lack friends... you know solution to your problem IS getting friends.
if you're being bullied... you know you gotta stand up for yourself (more friends you make, easier it is).
that's not easy, but that has to be done, and only way to do it, is by trying repetedly.

No wonder they're suicidal. :rolleyes:

People that cut themselves have a lot of hurt and a lot of anger they don't know how to deal with. The hurt and the anger may mask itself in depression. When a person cuts themselves it is a release for some of that emotion.

its not anger but thats one way of describing it its more of outlet when there is nothing left to grasp and no one hears the rage of heared emotions on the inside ya gotta have something to deal It Is Also Way Of Breathing For Some Its Not Really A Sucidal Thing But A Grasp Thing To keep from doing something Worse So As Most Cutters or whatever it is labeled Its something that cant be described but ya gotta let out

bin there done that and im not proud of it, its a place i dont want to go back to.

Wed. I finally went to a docter for/about my depression. He had gave me some samples ( I think its Lexapro) and told me to come back in 10 days. I had told him that I cut my self.

Geek, good for you for getting help. I hope you are on the mend soon.

Kim,
I hope that your able to get the help that you need :hugs: I wish you the best girl!

Youve probably gone back to the doctor by now. How did it go? How was the medication for you?

Re: people that cut themselves
 

they r emos. emo=idiot FACT. being emo is just a teenage fad.