Ugh! I feel overwhelmed times a thousand right now :censored: :chair:

Awesome, Jen!!! I'm sure you and Linda will have a great time!!:dancing:

I hope things get better for you soon, Julie. :hugs: :hugs:

Thank you Sheila

You're welcome, Julie.:)

{{{Sheila}}} :D

No, gosh no. It is your house, after all. This Ben guy sounds like a complete idiot, and your brother sounds like one too if he has said that he is going to move out if you don't let his friend move in. :mad1: :mad: :mad: What's wrong with him? Geesh. If this Ben guy is upset/defensive/angry now, imagine what he would be like if he moved in! :eek: I'm not trying to make you say no or anything, but if I was in your position, that's what I would do. I'd tell him that sorry but you already have enough people in your flat. First in, first serve, I guess.

Ok! I met this guy that Ben wants to have move in and he looks like he is gay :eek: He looked more feminine than my cousin Zach who is gay! When I first saw him I thought he was a girl :wtf:

Actually, my brother doesn't really know half of whats going on Hayley. Its Ben that is trying to be pushy and is saying that he will move out if his friend can't move in! I personally don't see myself letting this kid move in! My brother is moving back home in June and I'm cool with his descision.

I have nothing against gay people but when it comes to one living in my house....NO WAY!!

No I don't either, gay guys rock! (And Queer Eye For The Straight Guy is my favourite programme) :D

Oh I see, sorry Julie, I thought your brother knew alot about the situation. So this Ben guy is the dude that seems to be taking over...woah...man this is kind of a mess. So who's in your house at the moment?

Hayley, this house is so crazy right now that I don't know who is going where :eek:

I dont think U should appreciate him comin on heavy while your brother is not around:mad2:oooh if i were there right now!

Urg! I know, and I was actually gonna agree to let Ben's friend move in at first :mad: :eek: :wtf:

Me , Rufus, and Janelle even talked about selling the house and getting a new place together if we have to to get rid of Ben and this whole mess! I have been looking into trying to get a government funded grant and I filled out my info on this one site on the net and I qualified for a $22,500 grant for either a new house or to fix up this one and also a $5,000 grant to start a business! That was just from one site to :) I probably wouldn't have any problems getting a grant either, cuz I have a dissability, I'm in a minority race, plus you can even get a grant for being adopted! So I'm just looking at all options now!